Thursday, 31 May 2012

Article: BDSM on a Budget

Disclaimer:

Please note, that I am NOT going to cover the safety aspects of BDSM play in this article. Some of the things I mention are risky. Please make yourself aware of the risks of the activity before you play (whether Dom or sub, Top or bottom, Master or slave or switching). There are some great books and articles on BDSM safety or ask an expert in the activity for guidance.

BDSM on a Budget or ‘Household Pervertables’

Inspired by her recent travels Clover wanted to hold a Sin School event about BDSM on a budget for the local community. Off the top of our heads we could think of many ‘household pervertables’ and Clover thought that it would be great to make a date for everyone to share their ideas to splash around some inspiration.

Many of the ideas that were shared we had all tried and happily recounted our experiences whilst others came as a welcome reminder. There were some that were a bit unexpected but I shall come to the use of a paper plate with a hole in and the cold cooked spaghetti later.
Of course, if you are into 'service' then cleaning a house, cooking a meal andfd polishing boots can all be fun domestic situations.

Here for your entertainment and inspiration I present a list of household pervertables and their possible uses:

IN THE KITCHEN:
There are so many pervertables in the kitchen that I have divided the items into sections of BDSM and fetish interest.

CLAMPING:
Pegs
Wooden or plastic; can be used as clamps to attach to skin, nipples and clits. Some are more painful than others. Plastic pegs are easier to break than wooden ones.
Chop Sticks
Place a nipple between the middle of two chopsticks. Wrap an elastic band around either end to keep them in place. You can move the elastic bands to increase or decrease the pressure.

BONDAGE
Clingfilm
Wrapping your sub up in cling film can be fun. Saran wrap is also a good choice. Good for sensory deprivation and bondage. Body parts can be left free of the film for play.
String
Good for miniature bondage on hands, tying back toes or tying down balls.
Duct Tape
Can be used as a makeshift gag. More pain is in store when it needs to be removed especially if you have facial hair!
Dixy Cups
Fill with cold water and place on your subs body. Then do something else that will make them want to move. If or when they do they will get a cold splash and you can threaten other punishment for spilling the water.

SPANKING
Wooden spoon or spatula
For spanking that gives a similar sensation to a paddle. Experiment with different sizes and materials for different sensations.
Silicon pan holder
A round silicon mat designed to prevent pans burning the work surface. Makes a great flexible paddle for spanking. Leaves a big red mark.
Electric fly swatters
For spanking with a bit of an electric zap, an electric flyswatter produces an unusual sensation.

TORTURE
Wasabi Powder
Available from the World Foods section in the supermarket. Wasabi powder is mixed with water to make a bright green Japanese horseradish paste often served with sushi. When applied undiluted to mucus membranes it gives a burning, stinging sensation.
Blunted Cheese grater (or not)
For grating or threatening to grate skin.
Bottle of Coke (other carbonated beverages available)
For a very painful time and quite probably a nosebleed shake the bottle and stick it near your sub’s nose. This technique is used in genuine torture, be careful.
Chilli Peppers
Often used in CBT and cunt torture to provide a long lasting burning and stinging sensation on the mucus membranes.
Skewers
For poking and prodding. Heat them up to create a painful and long lasting (possibly permenant) brand on the skin. Can be used for a dramatic visual effect through an existing healed piercing.

DISCIPLINE
Rice
Spread it on a tray and then make your sub kneel on it for a very painful time. The longer they are there, the more it hurts.
Elastic Bands
To discipline your sub in public ask them to wear an elastic band and then ‘twang’ it whenever you feel it is necessary.

DILDO
Ginger
Carve a peeled piece of fresh ginger into a dildo shape to partake in the Victorian favourite disciplinary activity of figging. Article here: http://www.symtoys.com/ideas_scenefigging.html
Raw Carrot
Use it as a dildo, make sure you hang onto the end or get your partner to grip it with their teeth whilst you ride it.

SENSATION PLAY
Ice Cube Tray
Make ice for sensation play. Run it over each other or stuff it in orifices. If you have someone bound, blindfolded and in the right state of mind ice can be used to give a very similar sensation to being burned.
Pen
Write choice phrases on each other. If used for writing on the feet, this can be very tickly.
Paintbrush
Use to gently run over the body. Can be used to tease the clit or cock if dampened.
Scouring Pad
Use it lightly on the skin for a tickling sensation or more firmly for a rough, prickly sensation.
Candles
For dripping hot wax onto each other’s bodies. Make sure you check the burning temperature to avoid burns on the skin.

FOOD PLAY
‘Sexy food’
Eating strawberries and cream off each other is always a laugh.
Yoghurt
Use your male partner’s cock as a spoon for your favourite yoghurt.
Spaghetti and a paper plate
Cut a hole in the paper plate and pull your male partner’s cock and balls through it. Cook some spaghetti and then cool it by draining it and running it under plenty of cold water. Put the spaghetti on the paper plate and eat it with no cutlery.

IN THE BATHROOM

Electric Toothbrush
The handle can be used as a vibrator. The brush end can be used for sensation play either on the skin or on the genitals for rougher play.
Mint Showergel
When put on the genitals it gives a tingling sensation that can be quite long lasting.
Hairbrush and Baby oil
You can use the flat side of the hairbrush for spanking. The bristles can be used for sensation play that feels especially intense when combined with baby oil applied to the skin. For example, cover the feet in baby oil and then rub the soles vigorously with the hairbrush for complete sensory overload.
Shaving foam
Can be used in fire play. It’s also handy for shaving faces and genital areas for new and interesting sensations during oral sex.
Deep Heat and Tiger Balm
Creates an intense burning sensation on mucus membranes for CBT and cunt torture.

IN THE BEDROOM

‘Clippy’ Coathanger
One of those coat hangers that you get for hanging up trousers with the clips on them. Use the clips as clamps to attach to nipples and use the hook for bondage if desired.
Hat full of slips of paper with suggestions
Write down some sexual activities that you and your partner(s) enjoy, each on a separate slip of paper. Put the papers into a hat or other vessel and then ask your partner to choose one. Do what it says on the paper.
Shoe Horn
For spanking can be used as a painful and hard hitting paddle.
Belts
For strapping your partner. Try different widths of belt for different sensations.
Too tight clothes
Keep your too tight clothes to use as role play costumes in the bedroom.
Hair Dryer
When blown gently onto sensitive parts a hairdrier can produce a warming and erotic sensation.
Feather
Run over the body for sensation play.
Vac Bags
Usually used to store clothes eg. Winter coats over Summer. A small sub can get inside the bag and then the air can be sucked out with a vacuum cleaner for breath play and bondage.
Cotton Cloth
Cut to the right size a piece of cloth can make an attractive blindfold or gag. It can be drenched with water and used for strapping.
Goggles
Paint the inside of a cheap pair goggles black to make a ‘mindfold’ for complete visual deprivation.

IN THE TOOLSHED

Rope
Paracord or cotton rope works well for bondage which includes lots of knots such as Chinese inspired, fusion or Western style bondage. There are many excellent books to help you learn this style of bondage. ‘The Two Knotty Boys: Showing you the ropes’ is a favourite. You can also bundle rope together to create a flogger.
Chain and padlocks
Use it for cold, harsh bondage. Dog chains from pet shops are often suitable for this.
Cable ties
Can be used as cheap but impossible to escape from handcuffs.
Decorator's brush
Can be used as a sensation play toy. If you use it dampened it makes a really stingy paddle which leaves a nice red welt and if you use cold water is very chilly.
Airflow golf ball and some ribbon/string and duffel bag fastener
Create your own home made ball gag! Apparently effective and easy to apply and to remove.
Pet grooming mits
Can be used for sensation play in a similar way to 'Vampire Gloves'.

REFERENCES AND CREDITS:

Books:
‘Erotic Tickling’ by Michael Moran
'Showing you the Ropes' by The Two Knotty Boys

People:
suffering4art
clover
WykD_Dave
Serene_chaos
Soumistrentine
Mr Loc
MissLostKitten
xSquishlesx
SHIBARICK
Chalice_of_Grace
Oliphant
darkside99

If you have any more suggestions that you would like to be included in this article please let me know and I will happily add them.

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